周报 05 What your heart and brain are doing when you're in love

看不明情绪驱动的原由,在产生联结

Posted by helexy22 on July 23, 2023

很多年没有看过古装奇幻爱情剧,不懂剧集编码的小心思,看不明情绪驱动的原由,在产生联结。

一周的信息摄入太少,计划设立选题库。

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When she sees this, she joins him and realizes that after all these years, they have never really talked. As they plant the tree, their hands touch, they look into each other’s eyes and share a knowing smile.

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常常挂在嘴边的“交流能解决一切”,但创造交流的场景却是非常关键的要素。

Many people are caught up in the idea of a fairy tale romance, but the truth is, there are ups and downs in all serious relationships, and it is necessary to go through some tough times as a couple in order to solidify your connection to your partner.

This stage is often characterized by conflict avoidance, as you choose to only see your similarities and the good parts of the relationship, which is not sustainable.

When you catch sight of your beloved and your heart starts racing, that’s because of an adrenaline rush, said Dr. Reginald Ho, a cardiac electrophysiologist and associate professor of medicine at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.

“What dopamine does is it gives you that focused attention, the craving, the euphoria, the energy and the motivation, in this case the motivation to win life’s greatest prize,”

there are three brain systems involved in romantic love: sex drive, love and attachment

长期主义

以前一直在保证流动性,难以想象会在一家公司待上好几年,看到老同事就觉得看到了天花板。 想游离在团体之外,渐渐地,意识到积累需要时间,积淀需要额外的条件。

长期主义追求的是一个大的方向,长期就是指穿越这些自律波动周期的时间。

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和经济周期一样,小的周期构成大的周期,大的波动中蕴含无数个小的波动。

不局限于当前。

“Let your interests be as wide as possible, and let your reactions to the things and persons that interest you be as far as possible friendly rather than hostile.”

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